The Two of Wands as How Someone Sees You: A Possibility Being Weighed

Written by Chaya the Medium.

The Two of Wands as how someone sees you means you are on the globe in their hand. Here is what the picture includes, upright and reversed.

If you want the short answer, the Two of Wands as how someone sees you means they see you as a possible future: someone they picture as part of a larger life, weighed against what they already have. It is a serious picture and a cautious one. The person is looking at you from the wall, globe in hand, and has not stepped down.

This is you as part of the view from the castle wall. They see the horizon with you in it. They have not left the wall.

The Two of Wands upright as how someone sees you

Tina Gong's the Two of Wands guide at Labyrinthos associates the upright card with planning, future decisions, discovery and leaving comfort. When the card lands in a position that asks how someone sees you, I read those meanings as the image the person holds of you, which is not the same as who you are and not the same as what they feel. the Two of Wands as feelings covers what they feel; the Two of Wands as intentions covers what they plan. This page covers the picture. The general card meanings at Biddy Tarot are a useful second reference.

Upright, I read the Two of Wands as a person who sees you as worth considering properly: someone who could fit into plans, someone the future might include. The seeing is thoughtful. It is also comparative; you are being held up against the life they would have to leave.

What I would not read into it is commitment. The Two of Wands sees a plan. The step that would make it real is not in the picture.

What the card does not tell you

The card does not confirm the person will act, that you are weighed favourably, or that what they would leave matters less than you. No card lets a reader see inside another person's head. What a card can do is describe the kind of image that fits the person's behaviour toward you, and give you something to check against how they actually treat you.

The Two of Wands reversed as how someone sees you

Reversed, the Two of Wands as how someone sees you means the picture has stalled: they see you as a risk they are not willing to take, or as a plan they will keep admiring from the wall indefinitely.

In your own question, ask whether the person has been about to do something about you for a long time, or whether they have quietly chosen comfort. A reversed card here is a prompt to notice whether the picture the person holds has gone sour or gone wrong, not a verdict on you.

The Two of Wands as how an ex sees you

Asked how an ex sees you, the Two of Wands suggests they still picture a future you might have been part of and are turning it over. Turning it over is not doing it. My guide to asking a psychic whether an ex will come back explains what a reading can and cannot say about that question.

The Two of Wands as how a new person sees you

For someone new, this card means they see you as a serious possibility and are thinking carefully. A clear sign that a step would be welcome tends to shorten the thinking.

How to check the picture against reality

Look for deliberation: talk about plans, questions about yours, careful interest. If no step follows the considering, the picture stayed on the wall.

What to record before drawing again

Keep three short notes: the question you asked, what the person seems to weigh you against, and whether you have made it clear a step would be welcome.

For comparison, the Three of Wands as how someone sees you and the Hanged Man as how someone sees you describe different pictures. The the Two of Wands card meaning page covers the card in full, and the Two of Wands as a yes or no and the Two of Wands as timing cover the other questions people most often ask of it. For a personal interpretation, my guide to a love psychic reading online explains how I work, and the three-card tarot listing and customer reviews are worth reading before deciding whether to order.